How do I
How Do I Get Guests to Book Direct Next Time?
Ask existing guests to book direct by sending them a personal email before they leave or shortly after checkout. Include a link to your direct booking website and offer them a genuine reason to switch: a discount on direct bookings, special perks, or direct support. You can offer discounts to all direct bookings equally, but cannot specifically incentivise leaving the platform. Most guests will switch for convenience and savings.
When and how to ask for direct bookings
The best moment to ask is in the checkout instructions or welcome letter guests read when they arrive. Include a link to your website booking page and say something like, 'Book your next stay with us directly at [your website] for the lowest rates and direct support.' This plants the seed early so guests are thinking about it by the end of their stay.
Follow up with an email after they check out, perhaps as part of a thank-you message or guest survey. Include the link again and say something genuine: 'We would love to see you again, and booking through us directly means more of your money goes toward keeping the property perfect for our guests.' Guests who had a great time are often happy to book direct to show appreciation, especially if you have given them a reason to prefer it.
Timing matters. Send the direct booking invitation before they have had time to move on. If you wait three months to ask, they have already booked their next trip elsewhere. Send it within days of checkout while the memory of your property is fresh and while they are thinking about their next holiday.
Why guests will actually make the switch
Direct bookings are genuinely better for many guests, and you can say so honestly. On Airbnb or Booking.com, a guest paying $250 a night means that $40 to $50 goes to the platform. Booking direct, you can offer them a lower price and still make more. Even at the same price, booking direct means they get your personal contact, faster responses, and direct communication rather than messages routed through the platform.
Some guests prefer the direct relationship. If they had a good experience and felt welcomed, they want to support you over the platforms. Others simply want a better deal and will take it. Many appreciate getting an invoice from you rather than a platform, especially if they need to claim the booking as a business expense.
The catch is that most guests will not switch unless you make it easier than the platform. They are used to Airbnb or Booking.com. If booking direct requires extra steps, feels less secure, or seems to offer nothing new, they will go back to the platform for convenience. Your direct booking flow has to feel at least as smooth as Airbnb, which means a proper booking system, not a manual email process.
What not to do (the platform rules)
Do not offer a discount exclusively to guests who book direct off platform. Platform terms of service specifically ban incentivising guests to leave their platform. You cannot say, 'Book on Airbnb and pay $250, book through my website and get $30 off.' That is explicitly against Airbnb's terms and they will remove your listing if they catch it.
You can offer a discount on all direct bookings without breaking any rules. You can say, 'Direct bookings are 10 percent cheaper because we avoid platform fees,' and apply that discount to everyone who books your website. That is fine because you are not bribing guests to leave Airbnb, you are just charging less on your own platform. The distinction matters legally.
You can also offer perks that are not discounts. Free late checkout, complimentary local wine, or a fast-track rebooking discount for return guests on your website. These are not platform violations because they are not direct incentives to leave the platform, they are benefits of booking direct. Just do not tie them to 'only if you book off Airbnb.'
The reality: most direct bookings come from search and email, not conversion
Converting Airbnb guests to direct is harder than it sounds. Most guests are creatures of habit. They will book where they already have an account and trust the payment system. Even if you ask nicely, only a small percentage will switch for their next stay. The frustration many hosts feel is that they ask politely and still see guests rebooking through the platform.
The bigger win is that some will tell friends and family about your property, and those referrals might book direct if they are searching for your property by name and find your website first. This is why having a strong direct booking website is important, even if you do not convert many platform guests. It captures the word-of-mouth bookings that would otherwise go to a platform. A guest might not rebooking directly, but their friend who heard the recommendation might search you by name and find your site.
This is also why offering a small incentive for direct repeat bookings makes sense. If a guest has already booked you twice through Airbnb and you want their third booking to be direct, a genuine discount or perk that applies to all your direct bookings is fair game and often works. A regular guest who knows and trusts you is far more likely to switch than a first-timer who wants the platform protection.
The sustainable approach is not to focus on converting every single Airbnb guest, but to offer direct bookings as an alternative and capture the guests who genuinely prefer it. Over time, as you invest in local search and build brand presence, a growing share of your bookings will come direct, especially from returning guests and referrals.
Want to see what a finished direct-booking site actually looks like? Tideline House is a full live example, built the same way we would build yours.
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